My reckless childhood

Modern parents, like me, have a tendency to wrap their kids in cotton wool. We do it because we don’t want anything bad to happen to them. Fortunately my kids are very cautious and would never do anything reckless anyway but I was thinking recently about some of the things I did as a child and how I would never let my own kids do these things.

What did I do?

My grandfather was a pig farmer in outback Queensland and we used to visit the farm almost every year. The farm is still there; my uncles own it now. Something I used to do that completely horrifies me is I’d climb the tall ladder into the towering silos of grain and run around inside. It was fun because you’d sink into the grain up to your knees or more, making it hard to run. But had anyone poured grain out from the bottom of the silo, and they would never have known I was in there, I’d have become quickly buried in a quick-sand-like substance and suffocated. I’m not sure whether my parents knew that we did this. Probably not.

We also used to tear around the farm on my grandfather’s ride-on lawn mower. He would take the blade off so this was a relatively safe activity. We’d ride horses, sometimes bareback (ponies only I think) and milk the cow (or try to anyway), and collect eggs from the hens. We also used to drive the Mini Moke long before we ever had a car licence.

There were countless hours spent exploring the scrub and wandering off in random directions where I suppose we could have got lost and/or bitten by a poisonous snake. The farm had the biggest huntsmen spiders I’ve ever seen and I’m terrified of spiders. The toilet under the house was a home for green frogs whose legs would appear from under the rim with every flush.

What’s the most dangerous thing you did as a kid?


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  1. scifihammy Avatar

    I had a freer childhood than my kids also – running round like you did. Most dangerous thing we did? hmm there were quite a few, but I suppose going right down to the railway tracks has gotta be one of them.
    I wanted my kids to have the kind of childhood I did, but it really wasn’t possible; too many weirdos out there. Skinned knees I could handle, but not being sold into the white slave trade!
    I enjoyed reading your post ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. Rachel M Avatar

      Wandering onto train tracks can be dangerous! What’s the white slave trade?

      1. scifihammy Avatar

        When I lived in Johannesburg 6 girls aged between 9 and 13 were kidnapped and sold into the white slave trade – drugged and taken out of the country to ? to be used as you can guess. One girl who had been locked in a wardrobe managed to escape and get help. When the authorities got to the house, the kidnappers had committed suicide. Those other girls were never found.
        I didn’t have kids at the time, but it had a profound effect on me, and I always had to know where my kids were and with whom, while Still trying to allow them the freedom needed to grow up and be independent.

      2. Rachel M Avatar

        Oh that’s just awful and my worst fear also. I would never let my kids wander around the streets for that reason.

      3. scifihammy Avatar

        I know. There Are worse things than death!
        But my kids grew up and are totally independent, so it all works out somehow! ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. Rachel M Avatar

      Those frogs under the toilet seat had fangs you know ๐Ÿ™‚

      Ok, I might have been exaggerating a bit when I used the word “reckless”.

      1. PedalWORKS Avatar

        It sounds like you had a wonderful childhood filled with adventure. That’s the way children should experience their world. Unfortunately, these days there are too many unscrupulous people out there.

      2. Rachel M Avatar

        Thanks. I did have a wonderful childhood filled with adventure. I’m very lucky.

  2. ladysighs Avatar

    I’m still waiting to do something reckless. ๐Ÿ˜ฆ Overly cautious here but don’t think my parents made me that way. And don’t think I really restricted my kids. I am sure they did things I never knew about.

    1. Rachel M Avatar

      I’m overly cautious too. I don’t think I’ve ever done anything truly reckless. My kids have inherited my conservative nature and they’re usually too scared even to go upstairs in our own house by themselves!

  3. One among Many Avatar

    My brother and myself riding home on a bus from cousins, about 100 miles away. I forget circumstances but mother had to take a different bus but was supposed to arrive after about 20 minutes after. Told to wait. Me and bro waited about 5 minutes and I said lets go. We were in the middle of downtown. I was 12 and bro was 8. I really had no clue which direction to go. Sometime told me to go in this one way. So here we take off. Carrying our suitcases. Now remember our house was about maybe mile and a half away from the bus station. Come to find out later. And lucky it was in the morning.

    Walked and walked, this was in a big city too. Still felt we were going in right direction. About half way bro starting getting really scared. And we getting tired. A few blocks of lets say rough neighborhood. Calmed bro continued our trek. Soon afterwards I recognized where we were at. And relieved as I getting pretty scared myself. So we make it. Needless to say mother was totally out of her mind. Called the police, her and my aunt driving around to find us. We walk in the house, my dad just arrived back from work. Fixing to take off looking.

    Needless to say I was in trouble but not much of a fuss because we were safe. All i got from mom was hugs and yelled at for taking off. My dad said I don’t know if I should whip your ass or reward me with about anything. Didn’t get a whipping but did end up with about 50 dollars worth of toys. A true story, would not lie about this. Remembering back makes me think sure was lucky the homing pidgeon in me was right. Thinking about it now me and mother had gone downtown a couple of times. Being a kid didn’t pay much attention, perhaps not knowing but had a idea of which way. This was in the early sixties. I laugh now as my dad bragged about us for weeks.

    1. Rachel M Avatar

      That’s scary! I’m glad you both made it home safely.

      1. One among Many Avatar

        Thanks, along with other things glad to still be around to tell it.

  4. Denise Avatar

    My mum was very cautious and we weren’t allowed to do anything. It made me a bit unable to cope with the world, physically and mentally. I was a bit more hippy dippy about restricting my kids, which meant they were able to climb anything, which was a relief, as I was always the wuss in PE class who couldn’t do anything. But they inherited my placid nature so they were never haring to go out and about.
    Yes, those grain silos are dangerous places! Accidents with people drowning do occur, and apparently they explode as well if gases build up! Sounds a nice childhood you had, I’d have been terrified of half of it.

    1. Rachel M Avatar

      I’m glad you were able to be a bit more relaxed with your own kids. It’s usually the other way around! I don’t really remember having any restrictions as a kid but my kids aren’t allowed to do the things I was allowed to do, like wander about the neighbourhood alone.

  5. fossilcyclist Avatar

    Probably too many, was middle class, but allowed to be feral. Used to hitchhike when I was 16 off to Wales with a mate and go camping & rock climbing together. Spent a week camping & canoeing over the Penines, in a canvas double, which eventually we managed to rip on a lock keeper’s trolley. It started sinking & we didn’t have enough tape to fix it. No mobile phones then either.

    1. Rachel M Avatar

      Not many hitchhikers around these days. I used to see a few in New Zealand but even there it can be dangerous. A canoe with wholes in it isn’t much use ๐Ÿ™‚

  6. fossilcyclist Avatar

    Still got a film of that canoe trip. Different times!

  7. HMS Avatar
    HMS

    What a lovely exciting child-hood you had, much like the rest of us who actually lived on the farm, although there were a few accidents — haha!!

    1. Rachel M Avatar

      I sometimes wonder how any of you survived to adulthood ๐Ÿ™‚

  8. Sarah Jane Hird Avatar

    Once we had a babysitter who we had to put to bed as she was drunk- she took us down the the Governer’s cafe, in Dunedin- My brother and I got bored so we walked home and got our toys and brought them back to the cafe- come 9pm, we were starting to get a bit tired, so we went and looked for Pam- Richard said she was showing her ‘bush’ to her boyfriend- some random guy- we propped her up on the way home as she kinda walked in a winding way- We put her in our parents bed with a hot water bottle- people often ask me about how we pick a babysitter, and I think to myself-We haven’t had anyone like her… It’s a true story that defies belief- What was worse, my dad paid her, I think! If anything would have happened to us I guess she would have been for the cart,,,
    My battle scars probably belie some of the mad things I did as a kid- decided that diving off the side of a bike was preferable to applying the brakes and going over the handlebars- proof that tooth enamel indeed is the toughest substance in the body also my right lower arm had to be tourniquet so they could twist the radius back which had buckled over the ulna- We were heading on a 6 week cruise the next day- no time for a pin and plates to re-set it! Also, I can tell people why it is important to bend the knees on landing on the feet after flight manouevres- My brother and I decided to make up a club we had to do various challenges- alas I jumped off a 5 foot bank and landed with my knees flexed- the heel bone took the stress and fractured- again, I had plaster on for another trip to Aus- From time to time I still launch myself over electric fences while mountain biking or stumble into waterfalls while crossing bridges with a wonky steering system (from the fall on the electric fence)- After one fall, one learns not to tense up and go with the motion- My eldest daughter seems to have taken on my fearless streak and has had a few visits to A and E, only one time it’s been a fracture, still, a bit of risk taking at a young age is probably preferable to trying behind a major piece of machinery like a car, with more far reaching consequences…

    1. Rachel M Avatar

      OMG that’s extraordinary! It’s like something out a movie. I wonder what the babysitter is doing now? Did your parents ever hire her again after that?

      1. Sarah Jane Hird Avatar

        They didn’t re-hire her- I wonder if she would have looked for a babysitter for her own kids some short years after- she told me that punk was really cool- I equated that with a lack of any form of responsibility- that’s kid logic for ya!

    2. fossilcyclist Avatar

      How else can you Lear to assess risk?

      1. fossilcyclist Avatar

        Whoops, learn not Lear, damn autocorrect strikes again.

  9. Richard Avatar

    Where do I start?

    Was it reckless going off fishing at a young age for the whole day, without a peep from my mum, and coming back at dusk? Not by those standards 50 years ago, but today she might have attracted a police caution or worse for allowing this.

    I think I have always been sensible but is taking risks reckless? Not if one knows how to manage the risks.

    So what was the riskiest thing I did as a kid?

    One of many stories comes to mind. I was around 10 years old. My older brother and I decided we wanted to make a cannon, and see how far we could send a projectile.

    We made the projectile by melting lead and using the improvised cannon as the mould.

    No we needed gun powder, and the one ingredient that was difficult to source was potassium nitrate of course. This could be the show stopper.

    My brother concocted a story about needing it for a chemistry experiment … some precipitation reaction. I duly went to the chemists and innocently asked for the compound, and when he asked โ€œand what do you need it for?โ€ told the story. He knew I was a fan of chemistry so I had a โ€˜back storyโ€™.

    He was impressed, but I donโ€™t think he was fooled, but gave me some anyway … enough to make a bang, but not enough to do any major damage!
    Back home we prepared the gun powder and the setup the cannon with our projectile.

    We aimed it so that it would go over the garage and into a neighbourโ€™s garden (I am hoping we did check they were out!). We did stand back I think I remember, just in case the whole apparatus exploded.

    BOOM! It seemed to work!!

    Our calculations (assuming we made any) were clearly rubbish.

    The projectile did not clear the garage and left a big dent in the door, but did not even penetrate it!

    After this I think I decided I would do my chemistry back in my homemade lab, Liebig condenser and all. My ballistics day was over.

    My brother went on to be a serious chemist at ICI … in the Paints Division.

    Was my brother or I reckless? Maybe a little, but we were quite smart boys and I think quite good at managing risks.

    No one was hurt. The garage was in line of sight for a reason.

    1. Rachel M Avatar

      Ok, I think you win for the most reckless childhood. Concocting explosives at the age of 10 takes the cake. Well done!

  10. Pam Kocke Avatar

    I was a pretty cautious kid, much like my own. Most of my recklessness was in my teenage years and into my twenties. But then isn’t that true for everyone?

    1. Rachel M Avatar

      I was pretty cautious as a teenager except for the time I jumped out of a plane but that wasn’t particularly reckless because I had a parachute ๐Ÿ™‚

  11. Graham With Hats Avatar

    Ride at the front of a communal push cart. There were about 8 off use all aged 5-8 yrs old. I t was built by the local teddy boys, who were a friendly group, for the local kids. Everything was fine until the steering came off. My ankle got caught between the front of the cart and a wall. There was a lot of blood and I’ve still got the scar on my ankle.

    Ever since I’ve loved speed and good steering mechanisms. ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. Rachel M Avatar

      This one sounds like good fun and I think I’d have enjoyed a communal push cart. Not the steering failing part though. That sounds painful.

  12. Andrew Dodds Avatar
    Andrew Dodds

    Let’s see..

    When I was 2, I managed to move the pushchair I was in into a canal and nearly drowned.

    When I was 5, I disassembled a transformer whilst is was still plugged in and gave myself a mains electric shock. UK mains, not wussy USA mains..

    When I was 8 I spent the day at my dad’s factory (sheet metal fabrication..!). Whilst no one was looking, worked out how to drive the Fork Lift truck. Backwards. Very nearly demolished the building.

    About 11,almost burned the house down with the chemistry set (of course).

    Got a school chemistry lab evacuated after overdoing the H2S production experiment.

    In a completely unrelated (ahem) development, my youngest has been diagnosed with ADHD, which is genetically linked down the male line. And he’s given us more scary incidents than it’s possible to write on the Internet..

    1. Rachel M Avatar

      OMG, ok you’ve overtaken Richard in first place here. Wow. I feel very sorry for your mother …

  13. Secular Vegan Avatar
    Secular Vegan

    Your description of your childhood brings to mind the Go-Betweens’ song ‘Cattle and Cane’

    1. Rachel M Avatar

      I had to look this song up. I quite like it.

      1. Secular Vegan Avatar
        Secular Vegan

        They were from Brisbane, which is why I thought that maybe you had heard of them. Grant McLennan, to the right in the above picture, wrote the song describing the train journey from his rural home to school in the big city; he died in 2006. I saw them on tour here in Blighty in 1987.

        http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Go-Betweens

  14. Sherri Avatar

    So true this Rachel. We want to protect our children yet when we look back at all the things we did as kids, we wonder how we every survived! That is scary about the silo. My brother and I used to make dens inside the middle of huge haystacks. If they had collapsed we would have been crushed. My mother told us never to do it, but we did anyway. Naughty…

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